Need opinions. Nice respectful not judgy ones: I want two kids. My son is 7 month old and a lot. My husband does not want more he wants me to schedule the surgery to get parts out and sell baby stuff. A small part of me is on board because idk if I can have a toddler and go through another high risk miserable pregnancy then the whole new baby no sleep for months. He doesn’t help as much as I need too so that’s a constant fight. I just don’t know if I can do it. And the the cost of another child is a lot. I worry about shorting my kids if I have two. Or regretting not having 2 and hating him and me for it.
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I read a really good article about this and it said if you aren't 100% sure dont do it! I'm so glad I didnt things change ! I'm now having baby number 3.
I bristle at the "he wants me to schedule to get my parts out" personally. I'm not judging at all I just feel like if he was so adamant then he needs to go get himself "fixed". I'm sorry I can't give advice/input on whether you are done with kids, adoption is a great option if you chose later and if you want kids close in age you can aim for a child close your yours in age at the time. I hope you find an answer that you can find comfort in AND which you won't regret.
My problem is I don’t want my kids far apart and I’m already 31 I don’t want them later as I get older things r harder. That’s why I chose no bc
@viktoria45, good for you. I’m not superwoman but good to know kids weren’t the death of u. 🙌🏻
@viktoria45, my one child is so needy some days I think it will be my destruction. But all worth it when he smiles at me.
Unless you and only you are 100% okay with never having another child, then don’t do it. Get on a birth control.
I would sit down and really talk about it with your other half. I’d also sit down and write a list of pros and cons and see what you come up with. Just don’t do it if you aren’t ready- god will definitely help make the right decisions. You got this girl!
So maybe u should just get on bc. My husband was the same way ge was no no no then one day he said okay i want anougher... In time things may change i wouldnt get somthing permant if ur not 100 sure
I agree with Massmomma16 get an IUD my ex husband was the same way and I got an IUD while we were married because I knew in my heart I would want another child.