Question 💡 How do you ladies juggle your marriage/relationships , taking care of your kids , Jobs/Careers , maintain your friendships & household duties?
My hubbs works, so he pays all the bills and honestly for everything. I'm a stay at home mom. So I manage the kids, house stuff, appointments (even his) school stuff and cooking. He will help cook and clean sometimes. He does play with the kids too. He works first so it's not as bad . We don't really have friends. We hang with my cousin sometimes because our kids are the same age range. We have custody of his son also. We don't really have date nights or get to spend much alone time together and when the rare occasion comes up that we do we honestly just get lazy and go to sleep early . We don't do exciting things 😂 just the house being silent is enough for us. We have sex when we can and most of the time it's while the kids are playing or sleeping.
I have no idea I write alot down. Friends don't exist. House duties get done when I can do them. My man is there on the weekend at night or when harper sleeps we do our bump and grind arms sometimes we have a baby sitter
By sitting down and scheduling. We share a calendar and put all of our families appointments in, extra days hubby might need to work or take off etc. We fill in the gaps with self care time. Gym, hair, nails, hubby’s massage, and even kid free time alone as well as together. Even after 21 years it can be frustrating sometimes but it works for us.
By always looking a hot mess 😬 ask me when the last time I tweezed my eyebrows was 👀😂 admittedly though I don't have friends to keep up with cuz idk anyone where I live now