So Hayley has a sensory processing disorder and because of it has affected her meeting her milestones they said the reason it took her a while to do things like crawl sit walk and stand was because she was literally afraid it sends her system into over load which definitely breaks your heart as a parent but we will do what we have to we have activities for her to do for therapy every hour and will just find what’s best for her to help her cope with the scary world around her
SPD mama here too. You'll get into a groove. You'll learn a new normal and it'll be ok. Read The Highly Sensitive Child. Also join am SPD support group. It's been immensely helpful.
My daughter does too! Her hands are very very sensitive she doesn't hold toys or sit, or even show interest in crawling or walking. We goto therapy 3 times a week since she was 4 months old.