So... We wanted to have a baby shower for this baby. Mainly because we didn't have one with penny and wanted the experience. Well at our gender reveal one of my husbands cousins offered to throw it for us. Then when I messaged her today asking about it she asked if we even needed one. Like no we don't NEED anything we wanted to experience having a baby shower.. She told me if I felt bad about throwing our own she would do it.. Like why would I feel bad? I wanna celebrate the coming of our second daughter. I wasn't having one just to get a bunch of stuff.. Like am I just oblivious to something here? Why should I feel bad about wanting to have a baby shower?