Me and my partner were planning our 2nd baby last night as we don’t want to leave a big age gap. We are hoping to try sometime next year. I would love another baby but after my daughter was born, I suffered with a bit of postnatal depression, anxiety and depression. I’m slowly getting my body back and my mental health is slowly getting there. The thought of going through it all again and getting more stretch marks upsets me. It sounds so selfish but I hated myself after my baby was born. I felt ugly and had Suicide Thoughts. Anyone got any advice or been through it themselves ? Xx
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I had the same. Now my daughter is 5 years old and i’m pregnant. It was hard time for me, first year especially. But i know if not now, later I will not make this step. When I still have an energy, I want one more baby. If you are not ready, better to not plan a baby. But if you want it, do it. You will be fine) You look amazing)
I was exactly the same after my first I had really bad PPD and I was terrified of getting it when I found out I was pregnant with my second I did end up getting PPD again but went straight to the doctor when she was 3months old wo I didn't end up getting it as bad as my first because I kept putting it off to beig something else. Just talk to your partner about how your feeling through the pregnancy when you conceive of course and talk to him after you've had the baby and any changes go straight to the doctor for help. Xx