I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽♀️ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
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Why is he wrong for crying though? That's a horrible thing she was trying to plan to do to the person she is supposed to "love". Men are allowed to be hurt and cry too. She was pretty much trying to trap him. How is that not something to be upset over or cry about?? If the tables were turned nobody would be questioning her crying but because a man shed a few tears it's a problem? You should be happy to have a man who can be sensitive and show some feelings.....
Poor soul is probably heart broken looking at a woman he thought he knew.. i don't blame him for crying because if roles were reversed no one would be judging the woman for crying. When someone betrays you on that level its like looking at someone you love but seeing a complete stranger... hope he finds the courage to leave her and move on with his life.
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It’s heartbreaking losing all trust for someone you love dearly.. I’m just glad you guys told him. As hard and sad as I’m sure it was.
@kelley.blue, and NOONE WISHED death upon your son. You’re putting words in other peoples mouth. I don’t know why you’re felling to comprehend that.
Ok I'm gonna chime in, @kelley.blue no one wished death on your son. Go back and actually read the comments. Now your threatening violence because of people's opinions that you've taken out of context, got on your high horse and ran with! The whole context of the comments is basically in this day and age, a man's emotions shouldn't be shamed or suppressed. Doesn't mean a man is a pussy for crying when he's deeply hurt! He probably loves that girl and feels betrayed and heartbroken. No need to turn into a category 5 psycho on everyone.
@kelley.blue, what didn’t even happen? She wasn’t pregnant? That’s not why he was crying. He was crying about the fact that the woman he trusted would even think to do something like that...
🙄🙄🙄 wow okay theres no arguing with the ignorant. I give up, i never once wished death on your child or anyones for that matter co considering I've lost one myself. If anyone is evil its your hormones. If you cant properly read between lines that isn't my problem. Also threatening me isn't going to do much for you. Have a good day now.
@littleonemorning i did 🤣 no one is going to sit behind their keyboard hormones or not and threaten me or others 🤷♀️
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Wow. Never once was there a comment that anyone wished death on your son. The only one I see making threats is you 🤔
@kelley.blue, that wasn’t what was said.
Reading comprehension is a great skill to have
@kelley.blue, it is way different than wishing death.
Poor soul is probably heart broken looking at a woman he thought he knew.. i don't blame him for crying because if roles were reversed no one would be judging the woman for crying. When someone betrays you on that level its like looking at someone you love but seeing a complete stranger... hope he finds the courage to leave her and move on with his life.
@kelley.blue, again, calm the hormones. Name calling isn’t allowed on the app. ✌️
You did the right thing. He needs to know what he is potentially marrying. Your friend is 100 percent in the wrong on many levels. That will be very hard to recover from. But what she should know is he may not be ready for a kid because he wants to be more financially stable or wants to accomplish certain things before having a child. THAT is usually the main reason men want to wait. He deserves that chance and in the end it would benefit her and her family. Also, if she’s willing to do that to the man she loves and wants to marry. What is she capable of doing to you as a friend?
You did the right thing! I hope if they stay together they get some serious help. Don’t feel bad because she is crazy for trying to TRAP the man.
But seriously, you did the right thing.
My husbands aunt tried to trap a guy. Got pregnant and the guy gave up his rights and has nothing to do with his cousin now. The poor kid is fucked up beyond belief now because of it.
@oneishaivo yeah, they are a little young-ish, nothing is wrong with waiting. I wish she would have talked to him and come to a compromise, maybe 3 yrs flat. He sounds like such a good dude. It really hurts me that he cried, you can see just how torn up he is about it, she was wrong for that. I hope things work out for the young man
girl you did the right thing. why bring a child into the world knowing the other parent doesn't want them? that's not a way to grow up or live. and if she really loved him she would respect his decisions and wishes, she sounds very selfish.
I think y’all did the right thing by telling him. That’s a huge violation of trust.
Aww that’s so sad. Poor guy. I’m surprised he isn’t halfway across the world right now after a close call like that. 😬
I don’t think there’s a right way to handle something like that. You just have to get to the guy before she carries out her plan. And you did, so that’s great!
Hope everything gets better with y’all✨
I don’t think he’ll leave her.. believe or not I think he’ll go ahead and give her a child after he’s done being mad. He’s very soft hearted, and she’s good at manipulating 🤷🏽♀️
@oneishaivo, that’s so sad for him. Sounds like he deserves better.
I'm confused at why this grown man cried though... About that. I figured he would've played a trick on her or started using condoms or something. Crying??? Wow! She is a thirst bucket bc he should be allowed to choose but for him to cry about it wow!
So men aren’t allowed to cry? Wtf is wrong with you?
@kelley.blue, Well damn. I hope he has someone to teach him he is allowed to have and express his emotions how he sees fit.
Oh yeah, I forgot that men aren't allowed to express emotion. Thanks for the reminder.
She asked me to pee on a stick so she could pretend she’s pregnant and he doesn’t want kids right now. I told my husband and he told him what she was planning to do..
She told you she cheated and got told her husband?
I'm confused at why this grown man cried though... About that. I figured he would've played a trick on her or started using condoms or something. Crying??? Wow! She is a thirst bucket bc he should be allowed to choose but for him to cry about it wow!