Today was the first time I've ever heard men talk about me negatively where I can here them as an…
Today was the first time I've ever heard men talk about me negatively where I can here them as an adult. Everyone heard them I'm sure😔😔 I'm a big girl and I had on shorter blue Jean shorts and a blue v neck tshirt. One guy said "you see that there, I'll never hit something like that in my life, with those little bitty ass shorts on. Her shit probably is nasty." The other guy says she's probably easy though" And then they both started laughing. It took me a VERY LONG TIME to be able to walk out the house with something other then pants on even in the summer cause I was scared of what people would say and just this past year I finally said fuck it. But I've NEVER had anyone do anything like that before. Usually men are always in my face flirting. It's a normal thing for me. Part of me is like fuck them, the other part is maybe I shouldn't wear shorts but i want to be comfortable.
dawn·
Girl fuck them boys. Most men love bigger girls. Those guys probably aren’t nothing but fuck boys. Keep your head held high. Don’t let them boyish words make you think any less of yourself. And as for as your bf. Fuck him too. He sure lays up with you so you aren’t that bad. He just wasn’t raised right. His mother failed him big time. You can’t raise a man. ♥️ sorry those fucker hurt you that way. They probably have little dicks anyway and wouldn’t know what to do with you.
Queen👑··
yeah he can be nice when he wants. He loves me although sometimes he doesn't show it. That's the only reason I'm still here. It's the bad times that make me wonder why I'm with him. It's just when it's great it's awesome but when it's bad, its really bad. But I guess that's every relationship
dawn··
at least you know he’ll fuck someone up that disrespects you. Lol
Queen👑··
yes!!
Kaylee Brewer·
Just know I’m skinny and guys normally tell me to gain weight. You’re to skinny. I’m just naturally this size. So feel pretty with yourself. I’m not even confident in wearing shorts shorter than my knees outside.
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People will always find something to say! “Ugh, her dress is too short, what a slut” “her dress is really long, what is she a prude?”
All I can say, is fuck them. They’re assholes and if they’re married, i feel bad for their wives.
As for being in a verbally abusive relationship, I’ve been in one before too. It’s awful. It was constantly draining walking on eggshells. You need to stand up for yourself and leave. Set an example for your daughters because I’m sure you wouldn’t want them to be dealing with a guy like yours. Don’t ever let them think it’s okay for a man to treat you that way. Put them first, because verbal abuse quickly escalates. My ex bf used to always insult me, tell me that no one ever loved me and no one cared about me until he came along. And it went from that, to me finding him talking to a bunch of women and men on Craigslist (ew) and then him punching me in the face for finding out. I left months later.. I regret spending as much time as I did with him. Please leave.. it’ll get worse 😔
Queen👑··
I'm sorry hun. And he wouldn't take it to that level. He's not ready to meet God yet lol
-_-··
lol! I’m glad, but I hope you find the strength in you to leave cause no one deserves that
Miss My Sleep·
Don't even listen to them. You should have gone over and said don't flatter yourself that you'd even have the option, just think you wouldn't want someone so shallow minded anyway. The world has dickheads in it unfortunately, just let them be tears together and you continue to be fabulous xxx