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Raven
Raven
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (24 нед.)

Getting real tired of my man y'all.

Getting real tired of my man y'all.

He won't look at names. But says he can't tell me what he likes because he doesn't know.

Can't tell me what he doesn't like, says he can't tell me off the top of his head. Won't think about it for more than two minutes so I know what names to avoid while making my own list.

Gets irritated when I leave up baby name boards on Pinterest or a website that's got a list on the computer. Says I'm pressuring him. Not sure how. They're normally closed before he gets home from work. The only times he's seen them are when he's come home from work early and I was busy with Henry when he came in, otherwise I close them before he comes home since he won't look at them anyways.

Won't look at the two names I actually like because it takes 3 seconds away from his game. When I ask him to look at it and think about the names he goes "yeah ok. Later." And then plays his game before waiting until I'm busy with something to suddenly say he's going to bed.

Also does NOT want me naming our daughter myself. Says it would take away his voice on the matter and it's not fair to him that I have full say so on her name.

Agrees that he wants her to be named before she's born. Would like her to have a name before our baby shower. Offers no help anyways.

I seriously don't know what to do with him. He puts in no effort, doesn't help, acts like it's a chore, but when I offer to do it myself he throws a huge fit about how unfair it is to him for me to do that and says he wants a say in his daughters name. 🙄

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danyellehouse56

Danyelle House

Sorry you are going through this with him, that would frustrate me as well. Its like can't he put some effort in like it matters. My sons father is almost the same way and til this day is like that..smh.. Hopefully he comes around soon and helps you with the names ;)

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rememberjerika2000

jessica rivera

Girl mine was the same he agreed on Aamirs name the day after he was born smh

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rememberjerika2000

jessica rivera

@rariszoo damn well that's fucked up...ask him when will be a good time to discuss it...or just let it be n when the time comes let him know hes ass was the one not willing to pick one out so deal with that.. luckily u'll still have time before birth..

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rememberjerika2000

jessica rivera

@rariszoo btw I still haven't gotten my taco Bell I'm just sad about that lol hubby had to work a double today so that's out the window today as well that has me stressing as I'm craving it sooooo badly lol

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insecureemu

Raven

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (24 нед.)

oh no lol. Hopefully he gets you some soon! Most places are open real late!

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rememberjerika2000

jessica rivera

Hopefully 🙄😭🤨🤷

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insecureemu

Raven

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (24 нед.)

If it helps it made me feel very sick last night lmao.

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rememberjerika2000

jessica rivera

@rariszoo lol man but it's worth it

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mamaof2minigunns

Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺

Tell him to either pull his finger out of his ass and make time to sit down together and brainstorm and decide on a name or that he will be leaving you with no choice than to name her yourself. He's being completely immature and unreasonable.

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bunnybunny

Vannah

Ughh sounds very stubborn. He should be happy to look at your list of baby names or look at some online. I hope he helps you out soon since he’s telling you not to choose the name by yourself.

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shanalucas1000

Shana

Мама сына (12 лет)

Sweetheart, someone has to "adult". If he doesnt make time to adult with you then that just leaves you.

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