That’s how me and my husband were . When we planned it never worked . Anytime we just quit “trying” and just let it happen it was almost instant . I would try tracking my periods and ovulation and planning hard but it just stressed me out which I’m sure was making it hard also . As long as you both know you’re healthy and there’s nothing actually stopping you then just let it happen when it’s meant to happen . Good luck though💜🤞🏽

Don’t focus on actually trying for a baby. A lot of people who just decided to have sex and have fun ended up pregnant within a few months of not actually trying and worrying about a baby. Stay stress free and just have sex.