Found out I was pregnant last week! Couldn't be happier! But, there are some things on my mind and I…
Found out I was pregnant last week! Couldn't be happier! But, there are some things on my mind and I figure here is the place to vent since I have no one else to talk to. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 month now (I've known him for 3 years) and recently finally convinced him to add me on Facebook to make it "official" now that it's been some time. But looking in, he's been "heart reacting" to his exs pictures and to her the same with him. He never stays friends with any of his exs, except this one, they still keep in contact and see each other now and then. They've been on and off since middle school, maybe it's just hormones but I feel like this is a red flag and that he rather have her. She is very beautiful and I.. well. :(
deleted-user·
When did they break up. It can take up to 3 years sometimes longer for people to officially let go of an ex but I would tell him that if we are going to be together and raise this child together I would prefer if you don’t have contact with her anymore. In my opinion no one needs to stay friends with an ex especially not hang out with them. If he says no and wants to continue to be friends with her you’ve only been together 6 months so I would part ways now before you get cheated on later. I know I probably sound really harsh but I’ve always been a tough love type of person.
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
Before I even read “red flag” I was thinking major red flag 🚩
Don’t put yourself down!
I agree with the above comment.
Katie·
As long as you are strong in your relationship I wouldn’t be too worried, if there are other things that make you second guess it then I would understand your concern. I have been married for 8 years and with my husband for the better part of 14 years and I have two ex’s on my Facebook account and one of their mothers. We ending things on good terms and remained friends through the years. My husband also keeps in touch with one of his ex’s. We don’t hide it from each other because there is no reason to hide it. We are fully committed to each other and respect past relationships that have grown into friendships. Don’t get me wrong I also have one ex that is blocked from finding me bc that friendship does not exist. If it’s something that bothers you just have a conversation about it and tell him how you feel, it may be nothing or he may not realize how it makes you feel.