Hey everybody, had first doctor appointment today found out I'm around 7 weeks. Need some advice if…

Completely up to you! I told my dad early on with each pregnancy because I was comfortable discussing the losses as well. My husband opted to wait to tell his mother until after 12w and we got our genetic testing back because we had already suffered two miscarriages. In the end through it is up to you and your spouse though. :)

You may want to wait until you see/heartbeat when miscarriage risk drops a bit. But it’s totally up to you. God forbid something bad happens but would you want them to know if you miscarried? I felt I would want their love and support either way so I told only our parents around 7-8 weeks.

@gecko_mom thank you

That’s 100% up to you, with my first son I told my in-laws as soon as I took the test because we lived with them so it would of been hard to keep a secret when you’re living with them and then with my side of the family I waited until 8 weeks to tell them I wanted to wait til 12 weeks because I wanted to make sure I didn’t miscarry because I had two miscarriages before my first son so I was just having a difficult time with it but my mom showed up to my in-laws house so at that point I just couldn’t hide it anymore and had to tell my mom at 8 weeks and then she told the rest of my side of the family. With my second son I just went ahead and told everyone’s as soon as I took the test I FaceTimed my sister in-law/mother in-law while they were both at work while my husband called his dad and then the next day I called my mom and then I texted my family and told them that I was pregnant again.