I don’t know what to do I currently live with my parents and abusive Sister who recently moved in…
I don’t know what to do I currently live with my parents and abusive Sister who recently moved in she doesn’t have a bedroom and is constantly in my space since then she has punched me in the face blocked me in a bathroom knowing I cant push through her being pregnant making me late for work twisted my arms and nose said she wishes I would have a miscarriage and now threatens me she’s going to make my life a living hell when my baby’s born I don’t know what to do I have no where else to go she skips school everyday and its out of control I have called cops they didn’t seem to care
Shay·
Restraining order.
Beaky Mcspence·
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Sounds like you need to move out. That’s nuts.
Mandy·
How old is she? It sounds like she has some serious behavior issues that need to be addressed. I wouldn't want to have a baby in that kind of environment. You have time take the necessary steps to move out
Kaelah Edwards··
Shes 16 and she has borderline personality disorder shes been in and out mental hospitals and from parent to parent shes best at her dads house but wont go back there because he makes her behave
Mandy··
I see. It can be hard living with a person that has mental health issues. I stand by what I said before. She can't leave so you should take the necessary steps to move out.
MB·
She sounds like a bully. Put a restraining order on her. She cant get mad bc you're her sister bc clearly she doesn't care.
Penelope ·
What do your parents say to her doing this to you? You need to get the cops involved and document it every single time she touches you. I hope your planning on moving out somewhere safe. She could do something to your baby when your further along, and baby isn’t protected as much.
dawn·
Umm. That’s assault call the police on her everytime.
Kaelah Edwards·
Yes I should im just scared they wont take anything seriously against I think i will put a restraining order im just scared my mom will be mad at me because shes been trying hard to make it work even though she even attacks my mother
Penelope ··
I hope your looking for a place to live.
Shay··
Let her be mad. Her grandchild's life and daughter's life should be more important than trying to make it work.
Kaelah Edwards··
yes
Beaky Mcspence·
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If your older and have a job as you said in your first post I’d make plans to move out. I grew up with an older sister with BPD and she was quite violent towards me also. To this day as an adult she’s 32 and I’m 30 and is still a bully. Not worth the risks. She’s a minor with a mental illness so unless the police deem she’s a danger to herself and others they likely won’t make her leave your parents home because she’s not an adult. If your able I’d leave. I’m 30 and I still fear my sister and don’t like being around her alone due to her sheer unpredictability..which is also a trait of BPD they can be very easily triggered. If you need to chat with someone who’s been in your position your welcome to message me.
Amber Jacq ·
If anybody ever put their hands on me while I was pregnant they would learn real quick to never do it again. If I was you I’d try to find my own place because if she’s saying she wishes you would miscarry then I am very worried for your baby’s safety especially when she/he is born. A person with behavioral issues and mental illness could do anything to your child I see it happen all the time which is why I don’t go around my mother alone because my mom is an alcoholic with depression and a personality disorder, and she is VERY abusive so I don’t go places with her alone, and I don’t let my son around her alone I always make sure family are around when I’m around her because I don’t ever see her unless my husband is home when she comes over or if I’m at a family gathering like thanksgiving or Christmas because she is unpredictable, and gets angry very easily so I limit my time around my mother because she’s just a very unsafe person to be around, and I always fear that she’d get drunk, and hurt one of my boys because growing up she used to hurt me, and my siblings so if I was you I’d get out if you can.