hey everyone! im a mum to three kids. my oldest is my step daughter, but we have her 99% of the…

hey everyone! im a mum to three kids. my oldest is my step daughter, but we have her 99% of the time. I had rough pregnancies and even rougher deliveries, especially with my youngest, my only boy, Archie. I had hyperemesis Gravidarum and preeclampsia with my daughter and aever reflux and sickness with my boy, plus a placental abruption during labour. both were born at 37+6 gestation, and i haemmorhaged with both deliveries. worse with Archie. I needed a blood transfusion, and he spent a little time in the NICU on a cpap machine. I live in Hamilton, New Zealand and am a stay at home mum. I do deal with some mental health issues, and recently finished a year long DBT group therapy, and longer in one one therapy. I have two cats and a rabbit, Im a bit of a nerd (or so ive been told) and I love alternative fashion and spirituality. thats about all i can think of for now. :) #myfirstpost