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My sister in-law is 13 weeks pregnant but they can not find a heart beat for the baby. She has no sign of a miscarriage, not even cramps. The Dr. Is pushing her to take some meds to help her pass the baby. This was her 1st ultrasound even. She is 38 hoping for her 1st baby. I'm telling her to wait and don't take anything. What do u guys think ?
15.02.2019
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mychemicalshaymance
mychemicalshaymance
The heartbeat should be seen by now. There is also a thing called a missed miscarriage where baby is no longer developing but your body doesn't know. I'd have her go in, ask for one last us and if nothing take the medicine. Carrying a dead fetus can have severe consequences.
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cams
cams
If she’s been to 2 places and both say fetus isn’t viable then she needs to take the meds.
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jcb11
jcb11
I had a missed miscarriage at 16 weeks. I went to hospital and chose delivery over the D&C.
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shanonwise37
shanonwise37
Go to the Er and get blood work done and ultrasound
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shutthefuckup
shutthefuckup
Get a second opinion or wait a week this happened to me come to find out I was as far along as they thought once they measured my uterus and sac and all that
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shutthefuckup
shutthefuckup
I also went to a pregnancy clinic they also let me that there ultrasound machine is not as advanced as the ER
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
@dolliedom1995 that's a blessing.. thank u ❤️
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shutthefuckup
shutthefuckup
@tinafowlkes50, no problem i will keep you guys in my prayers
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zaka851
zaka851
Sounds like missed miscarriage, i had it at 11 weeks, took the medicine to pass the baby but i was in “labor “ for days and nothing passed, then went in for D&C which was fast and easy. I’m really sorry for your sis in law :(
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
Thanks hun.. sorry u had to experience that. Thanks for the advice, I will be sure to pass it along.
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peacefulmom17
peacefulmom17
Thank you😊
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peacefulmom17
peacefulmom17
Same thing happened I was 10 weeks but when they did ultrasound it show 8 weeks and no heartbeat I didn’t have no signs no cramping bleeding the only thing different my nauseas went away other than that nothing it was a missed miscarriage I went to er did other ultrasound same thing no heartbeat and measuring behind so they did a d&c sorry about your sister in law.
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lizology27_bb
lizology27_bb
I’m so sorry to hear. Sending you virtual hugs 🤗
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
Thanks hun, sorry u went through that. I'm just looking for the best advice to give her.
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lawsondeaja
lawsondeaja
No I went to the er they gave me pills 💊 toake the baby come out
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lawsondeaja
lawsondeaja
The same thing happen to me
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nap.queen
nap.queen
There’s no reason to wait. At 13 weeks a heartbeat would be seen. Waiting could give her a fatal infection.
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
Yes that's true, I didn't think about that. I just thought she would have signs of a miscarriage by now.
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shanonwise37
shanonwise37
Im 38 years young as well
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lpheartsyou
lpheartsyou
If it is truly a missed miscarriage, then she needs to get meds so she doesnt risk her own health. However, if she wants another opinion, she needs to be seen very soon. At 13 weeks there should be a heart beat.
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cams
cams
If she’s been to 2 places and both say fetus isn’t viable then she needs to take the meds.
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
Yeah that's true.. the free pregnancy clinic has studies giving the ultrasounds. I just suggested she go to her own Dr.
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lawsondeaja
lawsondeaja
The same thing happen to me
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
Did they end up finding a heart beat ?
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shanonwise37
shanonwise37
Wait an pray
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
Amen, I'm just hoping for a different out come. I couldn't imagine.
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momto3boys
momto3boys
I would maybe go to another Dr always a good thing to get a 2nd opinion
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
@momof3cuties did your baby make it ? I don't believe She hasn't had a vaginal ultrasound yet.
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momto3boys
momto3boys
@tinafowlkes50 yes she will be 13 in July
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tinafowlkes50
tinafowlkes50
@momof3cuties 😁 that makes me so happy.. yess
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