My bf has two kids, this is his 3rd, but my first. He’s kind of wanting to tell all his fam already…
My bf has two kids, this is his 3rd, but my first. He’s kind of wanting to tell all his fam already and I understand, but we haven’t even got confirmation from a doc (my appointment is tomorrow) and I wanted to wait till my 8 week sonogram to tell everyone. I feel bad for asking him to wait though.. BUT then he told me yesterday that he doesn’t want to wait to know the gender (I wanted a gender reveal) and I’m here like you already have two kids.. you got to experience this.. I haven’t 😭 let me have my damn reveal lol but idk if I’m just being a big baby. Should I just say eff it and give him his way?
madeline·
Yeah I feel like he should put your feelings in consideration and spoil you with this new everything in the same way rn lol kinda more when I first found out tho
Eve··
Lol I’m like why am I so emotional 😭
madeline··
lol I am too it’s just gonna get worst or be like this for a while 😩😩
Aiden&Adriana Manmie❤·
Мама сына (1 год)
just talk to make him understand the way you want it and how important it is for you I think he will understand cause those are the days you gonna remember for ever
Eve··
Exactly! Thank you, I told him that i don’t want him to be a fun sucker this pregnancy because it’s my first time experiencing this. I think he’s just impatient lol
Amanda B·
At the same for me, he has 2 kids and he thought it was going be the same but she so different.
I found out with a blood test and got the results in email and I opened it lol I wasn’t going to wait though, I was much happier finding out do I could start to buy more stuff and I was able to collect a lot of stuff for her because now that she’s here it’s much easier
Eve··
See I kind of just want to know without a whole reveal but I’m like these are memories I can have for my baby when he/she grows.
Sabrina·
Мама дочки-младенца
Same boat only this is my BF 4th! I had to explain to him like remember on your first born? The excitement all the plans y’all had and all the cute things y’all did or wanted to do? Yea...ima need that! I know it’s not you first time round but you HAVE to be considerate that it’s my first and A LOT different being the mom as it is. Hopefully he understands. But I will say it won’t stop there so prepare yourself. I just recently had to talk to my man about saying “this is my 4th child I know what I’m doing”. Ummmmm pump your breaks you got one more time to say that ish before I go ALL THE WAY OFF 😒
Sabrina··
Мама дочки-младенца
Sorry for the long comment...when I say recent we had this fight last night so I’m still low key pissed about it 😩
Eve··
oh girl I feel you! Lol if my bf told me “he knows what he’s doing” I’d be pissed. I mean my bf is just impatient, he wants to tell everyone and he wants to know the sex already but I’m like let me enjoy it man!!! 😭😂