For those of you with older boys I have a question. What age did they grow out of their hormone /…

For those of you with older boys I have a question. What age did they grow out of their hormone / attuide stage? My 11 year old is driving me crazy. Lol. He is talking back like crazy. He is being mean to his brother. Other people I have talked to said typically once their kid was about 13 they changed back to their normal self. That's so far away. 🤣🤣