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So I understand that in a "perfect" world men work and women are home makers and the one that raises the children. 🤣 But…

So I understand that in a "perfect" world men work and women are home makers and the one that raises the children. 🤣 But it's not a perfect world so I guess what I'm trying to see if I'm the only one that has a live in baby daddy that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with his son. He works on HVAC systems and is covered in fiberglass when he gets home on a daily basis. If he were to shower when he gets home he could hold him. But he chooses to wait till I have put him to bed to shower and the entire time he hasn't showered hes telling me I'm doing everything wrong and that I am the reason my son is crying and that I have no patience and that I am a terrible mother. But I'm the issue because I have a attitude towards him and I dont talk to him and tell at him in front of everyone. ( we live at his mother's house with her husband and other 3 sons and one of their gf as well) he tells me our problems stay between us but then he says all this hurtful things in front of everyone and constantly tells them that I dont do anything all day and there's no reason why I can't clean his mother's house and that I'm not reliable. (We also have 4 dogs plus 1 of theirs and of female just had 9 puppies) I've tried talking to him but he tells me that all I do is bitch and complain about everything and that I'm always yelling at him. He makes me feel bad for treating him like that but then I'm upset because he's treating me bad too. He saw this app on my phone because of some comments on my last post as laughed at me and I told him I needed someone to talk to about things because i dont have family i only have his family and i feel like they favor him because hes the oldest and hes the only one to have success in life I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and I need help on what to do I can't leave I have no money no job no where to go I just recently had to quit because he wants me to be a stay at home mom

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then…

Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls his eyes and gets butt hurt like wtf. You promised me these things I didn't make you and it makes me mad when you don't want to honor your word and then demand that I do it instead of at least asking me if I could. I feed my son his breakfast and now I'm eating mine in the kitchen because I'm just so irritated.

Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and…

Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name

Does your baby father tell you what time to be home like have a curfew ? Because really I'm not a child and I'm not…

Does your baby father tell you what time to be home like have a curfew ? Because really I'm not a child and I'm not going out drinking or partying it was a child play day and unplanned so of course I didn't wash the dishes if I had known I would of cleaned in advance and cooked but seriously he took it too personal saying I'm in the street all day and it's the last time I do this really do I look ten years old to him ?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!