So I understand that in a "perfect" world men work and women are home makers and the one that raises the children. 🤣 But it's not a perfect world so I guess what I'm trying to see if I'm the only one that has a live in baby daddy that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with his son. He works on HVAC systems and is covered in fiberglass when he gets home on a daily basis. If he were to shower when he gets home he could hold him. But he chooses to wait till I have put him to bed to shower and the entire time he hasn't showered hes telling me I'm doing everything wrong and that I am the reason my son is crying and that I have no patience and that I am a terrible mother. But I'm the issue because I have a attitude towards him and I dont talk to him and tell at him in front of everyone. ( we live at his mother's house with her husband and other 3 sons and one of their gf as well) he tells me our problems stay between us but then he says all this hurtful things in front of everyone and constantly tells them that I dont do anything all day and there's no reason why I can't clean his mother's house and that I'm not reliable. (We also have 4 dogs plus 1 of theirs and of female just had 9 puppies) I've tried talking to him but he tells me that all I do is bitch and complain about everything and that I'm always yelling at him. He makes me feel bad for treating him like that but then I'm upset because he's treating me bad too. He saw this app on my phone because of some comments on my last post as laughed at me and I told him I needed someone to talk to about things because i dont have family i only have his family and i feel like they favor him because hes the oldest and hes the only one to have success in life I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and I need help on what to do I can't leave I have no money no job no where to go I just recently had to quit because he wants me to be a stay at home mom