Any tips on how to get excited for a girl? My first pregnancy I was having a girl (lost her at 17…
Any tips on how to get excited for a girl? My first pregnancy I was having a girl (lost her at 17 weeks). Now I'm pregnant again and was sure it was a boy, but it's another girl. I feel horrible to say this but I'm pretty upset about it:/ I've never liked little girls or thought that they were cute. I'm so thankful for a healthy baby and I know i love her. I feel really guilty and ungrateful for feeling this way. :/ Please no negative comments or judgement, I just want some help ❤
Hibben ·
Gender disappointment is a real thing. I hope with time you’ll be able to come to terms with it.
Jessenia Jessenia·
God is sending you a baby girl for a reason! Later on you will understand:) god bless
BMAMA·
You don't need anyone to try and convince you not to feel disappointment. For one, you are probably dealing with suppressed trauma due to the first pregnancy loss being a girl - although I'm not a doctor. Then you're already feeling less connected because of your experiences and feelings towards little girls - I would say this is your new "normal" hun. You are going into unknown and scary territory and you are still dealing with the loss and the gender link is a big part of the rationalizing and disappointment. I completely understand that! Take it one day at a time! ❤
Kay·
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You'll feel differently when you have her. My friend was the same way kept wanting a boy all 3 of her kids was a girl but she loves them and wouldnt trade them for the world. No need to worry.