So I'm really really nervous because I plan on going to visit my family this weekend and staying until the 18th. My boyfriend can't come because he has to work next week. So it's just going to be me and our 4 month old daughter. I'm making my visit a surprise because my mom's birthday is next week on the 13th. I've talked to my sister already her and her boyfriend are going to come pick us up whenever we arrive on the train. The only people who know are my sister, her boyfriend, my step dad and one of our brothers (he's 2 years younger than me). I'm nervous because last time we visited my family our daughter was 2 months old. She's gotten alot bigger and has changed alot since then shes more active. When we went last time people complained because she started crying (I mean she slept the whole way there and the ride home on the train but at the very end she started to cry because we were getting off and she doesn't like it when the motion of a car/transportation stops) anyway can anyone give me ideas on how to deal with the anxiety and help me stop being so nervous lol