So apparently I'm not aloud to talk to my daughter on what shes doing wrong or try to fix something with because apparently towards the mother in law I'm bashing her around so she told her to leave me and her sister alone. So I'm done fine you know what since you dont want my child to listen to me or do as she told or whatever and along my child doesn't say hi or I love you give me hugs because of the mother in law so technically with her around my child I dont exist. So you know for now on since you want bash me and not let me be a mom towards my child next time shes meab to you or a brat to you I wont help her or along for now on apparently your the boss of her cause I d9nt exist because of you.
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If I were you, I would have a talk with her. I would be upfront and honest. Sometimes a confrontation is necessary for change. If she try’s to kick you out she is kicking out her grandchildren also. Your SO should leave with you guys. He should always choose you over his mother. He is a grown man with a family. Are you guys married? You can try to get some government assistance for housing. There is no reason you should be out behind her. Her had her family she raised her kids. And you need to let her know it’s your turn. Even if you have to take 3 steps back to start moving forward. These are your children, your responsibility, and they should never think you are less than their grandmother. Stand your ground and mark your territory.
Damn. That’s not ok at all. She needs to know her place. Your the mother not her.
Yea it's been going on like this since I had my first born she took over on raising her instead of me and when I try to take over to take care of my first born she pushed me away and when I tell her about it she dont listen so I complain to my SO about it and hes even talked to her about but again doesn't want to listen does whatever she wants to do. When we had our second child now she wants to come to me sbf apologize on about kendra mu first born and I wanted to tell her apology not excepted because its already to late now.
Erm what?! How about the MIL don’t exist fuck that for a laugh!
Will if we didnt live with my SO family it would be a better life with her around. But I'm praying that someday we will be able to move out on our own to be our own family with out his mom always in our business along bashing me because apparently in her eyes I'm being a bad mother when shes not a good mother towards anyone.
@amelliaholmes1457, it sucks, when you live under someone else’s roof they automatically think they own everyone under it 🙄 she’s your daughter so don’t be afraid to stick up for your self and rights as being a mother! X
@erincharlieconor yea true shes always in peoples business when it's just them talking and they dont add her into she always says what and when they tell her nothing when it dont involves with her she always gets but hurt about and says fine jeez and they tell stop if we want involve you in our conversation we would but it was between them to not with her. Oh and I have it just starts into a fight none stop because when you tell her how it is she thinks it has to be a fight about it and it's like dam chill out I'm just telling you. Shes a very childish 50 something women who's very childish for her age.
I’m so confused....
You’re mother in law tells you how to parent your child? That’s all I could decipher out of this.
Does she live with you?
Yea she does and what I was trying to say sorry I'm just pissed and upset and hurting right now but anything I say to my child she bashes me so meaning anything I say towards my child she thinks I'm bashing her when I'm just trying to explain it to her on what she does and how to fix it. But now my child won't listen to or do what shes told because of her. The saddest thing is my child dont say hi or i love you towards me because shes got it where she wont knowledge me at all.
@amelliaholmes1457, that’s bullshit. Have you tried talking to your husband about this? He needs to set some boundaries. Can she move out or do you guys live under her roof?
Yes we are married and I have talked to her we both have she dont listen so my only hope is to pray and hoping that we will be moving out soon.