Nope. You can still dress how you want and be a good parent. I was pregnant half of summer and i wore crop tops under my overalls. Once I got super big I just wore maternity leggings with everything. Even crop top sweaters. Still looked cute and was super comfy. I can't wait to lose all my baby weight for the summer cause I'm still gonna wear crop tops and dress up head to toe because it makes me feel good.

Awww u are so beautiful

I definitely agree that how you dress isnt an indicator of how good of a parent you are. It might take you a while to start feeling like yourself again, because so much about you and your life will change, but as long as you are trying to do the best for yourself and your family. Then you're doing great!

I felt that way at first, and dressed super different last year than I have the rest of my life. However, I've slowly realized that its okay to still be "me" even though I'm a mom. I get funny looks sometimes, but at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is: how you dress doesnt change how good of a parent someone is.

I definitely felt this way, too, with my first. I think it was just nerves got me. Definitely went away for me after she was here. It felt like "oh. How could I have ever wanted anything else?" That being said, sometimes I do miss pre-mom life, but I think that's normal