Having a difficult time with my 2 year old. (I know she’s 2...so before you say that I’ll say it for you ) I know my approach is wrong , but my mom can calm her down and get her to do everything she asks but when she’s just with me she wants nothing to do with anything I say . She hits me and kicks me . I get extremely angry and annoyed that she does this on the regular . It’s affecting my relationship not only with her but others . My grandmother doesn’t want to be around us because of how she acts .