Question of the day y’all: SHOULD A HUSBAND DEFEND HIS WIFE AGAINST INSULTS FROM HER FAMILY?

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Melissa ·Мама двоих (младенец)

Yes, if what they are saying is wrong. My mom is...difficult. P is forever calming me down and talking her down when she says or does something dramatic.

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M H K S·Мама четверых детей

Yep!

Theres been a few times where family has came at me wrong in front of DH, and he didnt miss a beat, he was right there demanding an apology and respect shown to his wife. Let me tell you, that was the last time these people came for me. 🤣 I mean dont get me wrong. I stand up for myself perfectly fine, but if DH is near, I dont need to say shit, expect apology accepted. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Tsunami·Мама троих детей

HELL TO THE YES!

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Yes, & if she's really wrong he can let her know behind closed doors lol

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Jaz·Мама троих детей

I think it depends. If the wifes parents insult her, he shouldn't step in .. Siblings or extended family .. Sure. But when it come to parents I would mind my business. Idc what my mom says, dnt give your input period.

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Tsunami·Мама троих детей

I’m treated as the black sheep in the family so even when I don’t do anything there’s always something and we are tired of it I guess. I’m grown. I’m not 10 y.o anymore

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Lori 🍕·Мама двоих (3 года, 3 года)

Yes always

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Depending if your in the right or wrong I want him to be honest with me not just telling me what I want to hear that’s with family but if we out in the streets he will always defend me no matter what!

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Leah·Мама четверых детей

Yep. I think it would be disrespectful not to.

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Caiticat 🌸·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

My husband always defends me when it comes to anything. I’d do the same for him.

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Yes but mine has never defended me lmao

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JDoll·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

Yes my brother defends his wife against my family lol.

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Shannon·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)

My husband said if someone in the street insults me, male or female he's going to defend me. He also said if one of my friends insult me, he will defend me as well. However, he said if my mom insults me, he probably wouldn't say anything and let us hash it out. He respects my mom A LOT 😒 So if your hubby respects that family member a lot, he may not be as tempted to say something? Just a theory

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Tsunami·Мама троих детей

Well, my family is a piece of workkkk. He use to never say anything even when they treated him bad but something happened that was THE LAST STRAW and now he doesn’t care LOL he’s very overprotective with me when it comes to them or anyone 😩

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Shannon·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)

@tsunamii I guess at first he was being polite simply because it was your family but yea if you have irrational family members that insult you constantly, the resentment builds up and you no longer care about being "nice"

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Tsunami·Мама троих детей

@miss_understood, yup! That’s exactly what happened :/

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Queen Meeks·Мама дочки (2 года)

Your significant other should always be willing to stand up for you. I can handle my own shit, but it’s appreciated when someone speaks up to hold me down.

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Kayyyy·Мама сына-младенца

110%. Always. No matter what. A marriage brings 2 people and makes them 1!

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Mandy·Мама дочки (4 года)

Yes. I can hold my own and don't expect him too but it would make my day if he did.

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Courtney·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (4 нед.)

Yes!

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Michelle·Мама сына (1 год)

Hell yeah. Should always defend his wife!!!!! Mine never defends me tho lol

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