Question of the day y’all: SHOULD A HUSBAND DEFEND HIS WIFE AGAINST INSULTS FROM HER FAMILY?
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Yep!
Theres been a few times where family has came at me wrong in front of DH, and he didnt miss a beat, he was right there demanding an apology and respect shown to his wife. Let me tell you, that was the last time these people came for me. 🤣 I mean dont get me wrong. I stand up for myself perfectly fine, but if DH is near, I dont need to say shit, expect apology accepted. 🤷🏻♀️
I think it depends. If the wifes parents insult her, he shouldn't step in .. Siblings or extended family .. Sure. But when it come to parents I would mind my business. Idc what my mom says, dnt give your input period.
I’m treated as the black sheep in the family so even when I don’t do anything there’s always something and we are tired of it I guess. I’m grown. I’m not 10 y.o anymore
Depending if your in the right or wrong I want him to be honest with me not just telling me what I want to hear that’s with family but if we out in the streets he will always defend me no matter what!
My husband always defends me when it comes to anything. I’d do the same for him.
Yes my brother defends his wife against my family lol.
My husband said if someone in the street insults me, male or female he's going to defend me. He also said if one of my friends insult me, he will defend me as well. However, he said if my mom insults me, he probably wouldn't say anything and let us hash it out. He respects my mom A LOT 😒 So if your hubby respects that family member a lot, he may not be as tempted to say something? Just a theory
Well, my family is a piece of workkkk. He use to never say anything even when they treated him bad but something happened that was THE LAST STRAW and now he doesn’t care LOL he’s very overprotective with me when it comes to them or anyone 😩
@tsunamii I guess at first he was being polite simply because it was your family but yea if you have irrational family members that insult you constantly, the resentment builds up and you no longer care about being "nice"
@miss_understood, yup! That’s exactly what happened :/
Your significant other should always be willing to stand up for you. I can handle my own shit, but it’s appreciated when someone speaks up to hold me down.
110%. Always. No matter what. A marriage brings 2 people and makes them 1!
Yes. I can hold my own and don't expect him too but it would make my day if he did.
Hell yeah. Should always defend his wife!!!!! Mine never defends me tho lol
Yes, if what they are saying is wrong. My mom is...difficult. P is forever calming me down and talking her down when she says or does something dramatic.