*** Venting Time 🤦🏼♀️ uh I’m about 10 weeks and I just feel like I can not talk to my fiancé . Anyone else dating an ex felon or anybody that’s been in prison . Don’t get me wrong he’s the best man I’ve been with why I said yes lol. But idk what it is when I get emotional he just does not understand why 😪😪 I feel like because he’s so used to having to keep it in that when I’m emotional he doesn’t know how to handle it. We been tryna so much together a previous Miscarriage not even that long ago I’m so messed up rn in my head and it’s hard when I feel like I can’t go to him . Advice 🙃🙃 *Friendly comments pls already emotional lol . Plus I got a little bump already don’t know if it’s ok or not this early or I’m just feeling fat or chubby now 🤦🏼♀️
Yes my husband did 7 years so i know exactly where u are coming from ....he and i go thur the same thing he never comforts me , when i am emotional i feel alone cuz he shows no emotion, i feel so crazy sometimes cuz i dont have anyone so when i am going thur stuff its like i cant go to him smh
Yeah mine did 8 one time and then another 1 after so yeah it’s hard but I’m working with him and he’s working on being there and more open it’s just a process you know
Tell him that even if he doesn’t understand or he doesn’t want to hear it that he needs to at least just listen even if he has nothing to say. I get emotional over stupid and important things all the time and there were times my husband understand and was supportive and other times where he’s just like “what is wrong with you right now” haha so I finally told him that regardless of how ridiculous or not my emotions seem to him that even if he doesn’t have anything to say that I at least want him to listen and just let me vent. A lot of guys in general aren’t used to sharing their emotions since boys are taught at a young age that they’re supposed to be tough and not emotional. My father is in prison at the moment going on 10 years now so I have some experience with that part but honestly I don’t think prison really has anything to do with it. There are probably a lot of reasons why he acts the way he acts. Try encouraging him to go to therapy or both of you. Relationships are a lot of effing work but if it’s the right one it’s so worth it☺️
Thank you love yeah he is doing that rn so I’m grateful but yeah ima tell him I need him to just listen even if just like you said lol thank you !! Yeah it’s been a rollercoaster of emotions lol
Bloat within the first trimester is perfectly normal. I like to believe it's your body preparing for that beautiful bump you'll soon have. Keep your head up. 💗