So those of you who know me on here know I don’t like my fiancé’s mother. Well mainly she doesn’t like me because the color of my skin. Yesterday, we went to Diary Queen to eat together. My LO pooped he’s only 21 days old. So my fiancé’s mother wanted to change him. I went with her to help. As we are coming out the bathroom someone was coming in. It’s a one toilet bathroom so she waited in the hallway for us to finish but as we were walking out my fiancé’s mother says, “Oh we were just in there killing a baby.” The lady looked thrown back by the comment and I was very confused. The lady looked at me and said he’s so beautiful and precious. I said thank you and apologized and went back to the table with my fiancé. When we got home I told him what his mother said but of course he won’t say anything to her but he was disgusting by the comment. Am I wrong to not want her around my child anymore? I try to keep the peace but that comment is not funny or something to say about a newborn baby. I pretty much just need to cut his mother off all together because things will never get better and with all that was said and done to me during pregnancy this comment should probably be the last straw. I can’t trust her around my baby. What would you all do?
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@omgitzkesha she's fucking crazy is she is really trying to play that off like it's supposed to be funny. She's fucked in the head for even making the comment to begin with.
@moonchild., right! I said to my fiancé who in their right mind would think a comment about killing babies would be funny. BUT one of our arguments when I was pregnant is that she has an issue with my skin color so she shouldn’t be around my half black son (my fiancé is white). So if that is the kind of dynamic we have why would you think that kind of “joke” would be okay. I’m trying to mend our relationship for the sake of this little boy and you make that kind of comment. Nope I’m done with her and my kids are not allowed around her.
@omgitzkesha I don't blame you girl. She is completely in the wrong. She should never say that shit about any child let alone her grandchild!
Was the baby crying? Maybe she meant it like "you would think he was being hurt from the way he was crying, instead of just having his diaper changed"? Not saying it's okay, just trying to understand what would bring her so say something so crazy.
If the baby was crying I could see what she meant or trying to say but nope the baby wasn’t crying at all. Either way tho the joke was out of line and inappropriate.
@boys.everywhere, it is and I feel bad cutting her off but at this point I think it’s best. She still doesn’t understand how it’s not okay.
What in the entire fuck?! Cut her off
That’s extremely strange and alarming. I would have cut her off long ago, but I would definitely stop interacting with her after this.
Yeah that is my thoughts as well. I tried to keep the peace but at this point and with that comment but at who’s expense?
@omgitzkesha, exactly. It’s better to just be the bad guy and protect your energy and your child’s energy. No one has time for this foolishness.
That is very strange. Absolutely not funny and very inappropriate. I don’t think I’d trust anyone that would have that kind of thought process.
I agree! And every time I’m around her these are the type of comments that are said behind my fiancé’s back when I’m alone with her. I told my fiancé that I don’t want her around my son with that kind of thought process.
I would be fucking livid! She'd be cut out of our lives quickly.