How did you tell your SO that you were pregnant and what was your SO's reaction when you told him the news that he was going to be a daddy for the first time, 2nd, 3rd, etc. I'm looking for ideas on how to tell my husband that we're expecting.
Uh I was scared as fuck and sent him a picture of the test. I don’t think he said much, but I told him I made an appointment to get a real test done.
I called him and told him, and he said “oh. Great.” And told me to come to his office.
We hugged and I cried, and then after telling him I didn’t want to tell anyone for a while, he walked around his office telling EVERYONE 🤦🏻♀️
Lol. Hahaha, that's the cutest thing when the father to be is more excited than you were expecting him to be. I want to do a special announcement myself this go around. Maybe you could do a gender reveal? I'm going to do that as well.
With my first it was the first month we were trying and he was too anxious to wait and see if my period was late so 2 days before I took a test. He was thrilled.
With my second I was a few days late, he was at work, it was his birthday. He's my birth control baby so we weren't ready to have another as the first had just turned one so we were both pretty upset by the whole thing. Looking back with it being his birthday I wish I would of given him a gift or something to announce but I was devastated.
I'm still trying to wrap my head around it. I'm still not sure how to feel. I'm happy, but at the same time, I know our situation. Nothing is ever 100% it seems when it comes to preventing a pregnancy from occurring. I'm just trying not to worry so much. I'm going to tell him on our Anniversary. I don't want him to worry about anything right now.
I never did anything cutesy. All of ours were planned, and he knows my cycle 😂
He was excited about all 3 pregnancies. However when I brought home the ultrasound for our last one (he was home sick with flu), he said “oh no! There’s two of them!” 🤣
Lol. Man, my husband will ask me, so...your friend came yet? So far we've always been in the clear...until now. During my second pregnancy, before the first ultrasound, I asked him, what if we're having twins? With the way that I was feeling, I didn't think that I would go through that another time. Kinda like the 2 for 1 one deal. The thought just came to me. When the ultrasound tech told us that we were having two, he just started laughing and said that I got what I asked for.
First - I brought him over to talk, he completely turned white and stared at the wall. Poor guy, he handled it well. I was 16, him 18.
Second - planned, I nervously talked with him in the bedroom, I don’t know why I was so scared to tell him and he was so loving and supportive.
Third - planned, and even though I was a month late, after 20+ negatives I finally got the positive and I was so surprised (was seriously expecting a neg) I ran downstairs and just kept repeating that I was pregnant... he was like cool, why are freaking out, you know how this goes lol.
I totally dropped the ball because I was so excited. I called him at work because I was on vacation in texas and told him. He responded with the calmest okay ever. 😂😂 I swear he probably almost hit the dirt.
With our youngest I asked him what he was doing on Jan 20th ( my due date) and he was like I don’t know and I said well we will be having a baby. He was excited and we are ttc for one now and he’s excited having another one already and I’m not even pregnant yet!
I called him and told him, and he said “oh. Great.” And told me to come to his office.
We hugged and I cried, and then after telling him I didn’t want to tell anyone for a while, he walked around his office telling EVERYONE 🤦🏻♀️