Does anyone else have a real problem saying no to people? I feel really poop right now, this is our first baby and could quite possibly be our only. I really want the experience of choosing a pram and other things and have an idea of the kind of things we like and really just want to experience everything ourselves - there are just so many people saying they have stuff they'll give us (Not all of it is particularly pleasant condition-wise) and if I say "yeah we will see!" I get attitude back, and at the same time I'm grateful for the help, I also feel like this is all I've ever wanted and is it wrong for me to feel a little upset that other people are picking things out for our baby and I can't seem to say "no" without feeling like an ungrateful sod! I feel so crap about it and I just dont know what to do.