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Lillian P.
lilllllllllyyyyyyyyy
Lillian P.·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I’m not asking for me.
What are some things you can do to rekindle a spark in a relationship? A dear friend of mine feels as if her she her man are falling out of love and would love if he would feel the same towards her as he did when they were just going out for a couple months. How do you bring that feeling back where you feel giggly and fluttery?
I get falling out of love is natural sometimes, and I’m only asking because those two are so good together and relationships require maintenance. He’s about to leave on deployment, so some love and stench between them is much needed.
23.01.2019
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mrs.jay__x
mrs.Jay__x·Мама четверых детей
You said it perfectly 👌
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msinsomnia
Verified ✔️ (READ MY BIO)·Мама четверых детей
*sorry for such a long comment*
The truth is that’s just how things go, people get comfortable and get out of the excited phase, but that doesn’t mean that he can’t do nice things for her just to let her know he’s thinking of her etc. and vise versa. My husband and I are out of that excited and butterflies phase and we’re just comfortable, but we still surprise each other now and then and remind each other that we thought of them and care and love them, don’t get me wrong, I still get excited when he’s about to be home from work and things like that, but it’s not like it use to be in the very beginning, and I’m okay with that, I know he loves me as I do him, I think that sometimes people just have a hard time adjusting to the change, every relationship ends up here to this point eventually, and it doesn’t mean that they have fallen out of love with each other, I think more or less the relationship has gotten boring (that’s the way some interpret it anyway) which can be dangerous, I think IMO that they just need to liven it up a little by going on a surprise date, or maybe doing something new in the bedroom once and awhile, or doing the dirty somewhere different and strange 😂 or maybe sit down and talk to each other and express how they feel about it, all depends on what they’re comfortable with doing.
I hope everything works out with them and they figure out a good plan.
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ladyblauvelt
Allyson Almeda·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)
I think the deployment will be good for them, they'll be apart for a while and he'll have a chance to miss her, but until then they should just plan fun nights together a few nights a week. Tell her to buy a some lingerie and surprise him, be spontaneous. The distance very well could be because he is being deployed and it may be rough for him.
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bodybycheetos
BakingDaddy ·Мама двоих (8 лет, 11 лет)
Nothing says I miss my spouse like the return of a deployment 🤣
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bodybycheetos
BakingDaddy ·Мама двоих (8 лет, 11 лет)
Be spontaneous, plan a picnic or a surprise lunch to just spend time together (no phones!), Plan a date night (again, no phones), just spend time together. You won't *always* be in the honeymoon phase, but you can always try new things together and try to have fun new adventures.
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adashoflovewith2girls1boy
Q U E T A✨·Мама троих детей
Are you pregnant with triplets
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lilllllllllyyyyyyyyy
Lillian P.·Мама дочки (9 лет)
has absolutely nothing to do with my post, but yes 😂
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adashoflovewith2girls1boy
Q U E T A✨·Мама троих детей
@lilllllllllyyyyyyyyy, I know it didn’t have anything to do with your post but I was gonna say congrats and I thought it was awesome 🤷🏾‍♀️
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lilllllllllyyyyyyyyy
Lillian P.·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@dearestdaughters well thank you. 😂💗
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