Honestly I never go for looks...never been about getting the sexy dude or ugliest dude I go for what's really important and looks ain't important...but he isn't cute in no way shape or form... so I looked at it as an advantage..in my relationship... it's just the way I look at things
I used to have a friend who got into relationships with unattractive men, because she thought no other women would come for them and she though they would treat her like a queen because she was too pretty for them.
Shes been divorced twice now. It doesnt matter how attractive or unattractive a person is; the only type of person who stays in a relationship with you, is someone who wants to be in a relationship with you. It's all about the type of person they are.
I don't think looks has to do with anything.
I saw a quote once I forget how it goes but it said something like " you can't steal a man who doesn't want to be stolen"
Try a relationship with a person who chooses not to go with someone else. You can't take someone who doesn't want to leave. Look at the caliber of your man versus blaming women.