Kaila
tylersmommy11116
Kaila·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

Anybody else just feel SO guilty after having a second child? I love both of my kids so much but I always think I’m not spending enough time with my oldest. Or I’m not showing him enough love & he doesn’t feel as loved any more.. He’s been acting out a lot since we brought his brother home and at night I can’t help but just cry once everyone is asleep because I feel sooooo bad 😞

22.01.2019
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You’re only two weeks into this mama, don’t let the guilt get to you. You are doing the very best you can & this is a whole new atmosphere for everybody! The fact your hormones are all over the place right now doesn’t help but just know things will get better & you’re not alone ❤️ keep up the great work!

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tylersmommy11116
Kaila·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

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xoxochelsey
Chelsey·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

My second isn't even born yet, but I've felt this way since I found out I was pregnant. I'm so close with my first I'm scared she's gonna feel unwanted or left out and Idm how I'm gonna be able to handle it 😭 its do heartbreaking. I hope she understands and realizes mommy still loves her 😟

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deepsoul90
Blessed Mama ·Мама троих детей

I felt the same way my daughter was almost two when my son was born she’s 2 now a few months and his 5 months and she’s gotten a lot better it’s def hard and a big change for them and us :( but i promise it gets better. Jsut involve her in everything i let her help me change his diapers and sing with me help bathe him and she loves it :) when he naps i play with her and i always make sure i show her a lot of affection 😊

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e_elliana408
Energizermama·Мама четверых детей

I feel you completely. I felt this way for 5-6 years. My oldest is now 8 going on 9 but I felt so bad when she had just turned 2 years and then two months later her lil sis was born. I felt like a horrible person. It can be hard to brush off cause she was the only baby but I’ve learned to do many things that help me and her because I made her feel special. You can never say I love you too much, hugs, cuddles, kisses, holding his hand while you have baby in your arms, fix him a cozy spot next to you as much as you can.

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