Hand on my heart when I write this.
Hand on my heart when I write this.
I don’t care if your a stranger or a close friend. If u was in need, regardless of weather I could help or not. I’d be there to support you. My whole life I’ve had those who are closest to me abuse and neglect me. All I’ve ever done is help those who need it. Once a week me and my nan would make ham sandwiches and hand them out to the homeless. I must admit we haven’t done it since Christmas but that’s because we’ve had a recent loss but that’s beside the point. I think people should open there eyes to the real world, this world is full of crime and full of hate ain’t it about time someone did some good.
Kerry.·
A lot of people on here ARE in the real world. You don't know anyone's story..
It's not about being there to help out it's the cheek of asking a bunch of internet 'strangers'who are more than likely in the exact same boat you are.
Nicole··
For the last time I didn’t ask a bunch of strangers. It may have come across that way because I posted it on the feed but I was asking those who I New.
Kerry.·
If you and your nan helped the homeless, can you not ask your nan to lend you some money?
Nicole··
As my status said. We had a loss in the family. She’s the only one who bothered to pay for the funeral.
Kate Bodell·
Maybe show some decency here then. Your behaviour was completely uncalled for. I just suggested maybe private messaging your close friends or tagging them and you were completely down right rude, claiming I had no concept of the real world.
Please think and consider others feelings before posting.
Nicole··
You didn’t have to comment on my post. Okay you may have been offended but you didn’t need to comment. The status said I was asking friends. If I was asking a bunch of strangers I would of said “will one of the people on this website help me”. It may have been “uncalled” for but so were a lot of the other comments. I didn’t jump down your throat because u commented I jumped down your throat because you commented on everyone else’s comment agreeing with what they were saying and I felt it was uncalled for.
Kate Bodell··
all I did was be helpful and suggest maybe tagging or private messaging, sometimes posts may be missed, your close friends might not have noticed them. You completely jumped down my throat, you were incredibly rude to people i do consider my close friends. I wasn’t nasty, I only made a suggestion. To say I have no concept of the real world was very rude. You do not know me or anything about my life.
Gemma 🖤·
I’m so lost how your nan making ham sandwiches for the homeless means you’re entitled to ask strangers to lend you £20?
Nicole··
I’m not gonna have another status where I’m constantly explaining myself. I didn’t ask anyone I didn’t no to lend me money. I asked my friends who would of commented or not commented. It was posted in the feed so it may have come across I was asking everyone & that’s the reason I put “Can one of my friends help me” not can anyone on this site help me.
Gemma 🖤··
Quick question.. do you not have their mobile numbers to message?
Nicole··
a Couple, yes. But a lot of people I no use WhatsApp and social media. I don’t use none of that. So unless I’m willing to which I’m not I ts a lot harder for me to contact people
Sarahleeds·
But the thing is I don't see anyone else on ur posts ur friends ect to everyone it seems ur asking them see it from everyone else's point of view ur new too so cause of all fakes we will check accounts check who we r letting on r profiles this is the first time we have seen a post like this and especially from a newbie
Nicole··
Well I apoligise that it came across like that🤷🏼♀️ it wasn’t intentional at all. I simply came to the app because I used to have the app called mya which was a little similar but I found a lot of younger girls was using it and wasn’t getting what I was looking for out of it as the app covered periods and puberty as well as pregnancy
Emily-May·
Kerry.·
I can't understand it though.. We've all been there with money, some still are...
I've been friends with some of the girls on here for over 3 years but would never dream of asking for money off them no matter how tough things were..
There are plenty of other options, does your OH not have family he could ask?
Payday loan? Plenty accept even with bad credit ratings, and if you pay back next weekend which you orginially said you won't be charged any interest
Nicole··
And that’s how you would of done it. Everyone’s different. My friends are my friends for reasons and all my friends have asked for help and so have I. I tried many loans I tried and for some obscured reason I got declined. Why? I don’t no because my credit is in the very good section so I really don’t no
Kerry.··
your OHs family?
Does he not work?
Nicole··
he’s currently in Devon doing some work. It’s helping us but at this moment in time it isn’t as he’s so far away from where we are. I do not have no contact with his family.
Carly·
"open their eyes to the real world"? Because a post on social media to make out you are a victim. A post to make yourself look better then others for making sandwiches once a week. That's the real world isn't it? Making a massive drama on a group based on the fact others didn't agree with your post asking strangers for money. That's the real world isnt it? You have no clue what others story's are. I don't know yours either but there is one thing I HATE. Using something awful that has happened to you to make others feel bad about themselves.
I don't know why you asked for money nor do I care but this isn't a go fund page. It's a page for mum's to come together, talk on a level that is equal, to share experiences and help each other through a hard but rewarding journey. Maybe this group isnt for you? Or maybe rather asking on an open post you privately talk to "your friends" and stop unnecessary drama
Nicole··
Your entitled to your own opinion. As I said I ain’t here for yet another row. I didn’t ask strangers for money I asked my friends. Yes I posted it to the feed but I made clear I was asking friends. If the situation pops up again I’ll be messaging people directly and tagging people. I haven’t made myself sound out to be no victim and I have at no point played the victim act but like I said ur entitled to ur own opinion.
Lauren Natalia·
What I don't understand is I haven't seen one person comment that's claimed to be your friend? Just be honest you were asking anyone wasn't you?
Nicole··
I’m sorry they haven’t commented I suppose they don’t spend every minute on there phone. Tbh I don’t even no how your commenting I blocked u🤷🏼♀️
Kika·
What is going on???🤭😧🙄
Nicole··
Loool way to much to explain X
🤦🏻♀️·
My god I’m so confused at what’s gone on lol 😂
🤦🏻♀️··
@nicoleshonnyandmichael2018, I didn’t get involved in whatever went on afterwards as I didn’t actually see the post. I just assumed someone need money for their baby so I was more than willing to give it. Hope you got sorted anyway x
Nicole··
I didn’t but thank you very much your ever so kind X
🤦🏻♀️··
no problem x
Nicole·
Everyone’s so quick to say I was out of order but not one person apologised for there sayings so no I won’t apoligise. Am I a mug???
Nicole·
I apologised to those I thought deserved it. The rest can piss of. Everyone was so quick to judge yet I’ve had messages also saying them women were out of line but I suppose I’m the bad guy. It’s a joke.