Hey moms I have a question ok so short story I have 2 sisters and one of them is getting married on March 30th of this year well mine and hubbies Anniversary is the 8th of March and hes already asked the 7th thru the 9th off from work so we a hotel to stay in for 2 nights to spend time with each other well my sister planned to have her bachelorette party on those three days to will hubby and I already had this planned and setup well now my sister wants me to cancel our plans just so I can go will the con is i have to pay my way in 200 for the hotel that she got along other things well hubby and I already planned this and already booked it and along hes gotten those three days off already. My question is her bachelorette party is in San Antonio Texas my question is if you were in my shoes what would you do.
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Stay with your hubby and enjoy your anniversary.
It’s honestly selfish she wants you to cancel your plans that have already been established that she could easily do the next weekend.
She planned her bachelorette party on your anniversary. Not only would I not go but I'd be pretty annoyed that she decided to do it on those days and then expected you to go. I'm sure she knew it was your anniversary right?
I would keep my own plans. You're going to the wedding right? I wouldn't cancel my anniversary to have to pay 200.00 to go to a bachelorette party.
I would say tell your sister sorry you are not able to go and tell her you and her can have a day out together after March 9th... She should understand you already had planned it before and your husband asked for day’s off he might not be able to get day’s off if you cancel...
I would hope your sister understands but what I would think is your family is more important. Your in a relationship with your husband. Like yeah I get it it’s your sister but look how your husband went all out. Maybe take your sister out the next weekend. I mean your anniversary only comes around once a year and that’s to celebrate make your marriage and the family y’all built together.
I understand the importance of family, but once you’re married with kids, that is YOUR family, and I believe they’re priority over your own siblings, plus y’all planned it before you knew about hers. She can’t blame you for that. Go enjoy your anniversary just don’t miss her wedding lol 😂