Last night was the first time I've been sick this pregnancy and it's down to stress 😞 My ex has gone…
Last night was the first time I've been sick this pregnancy and it's down to stress 😞
My ex has gone on so much this past week he's actually making me ill!
He's trying to 'win' me back but I'll read his message but not write back straight away and it's oh your with someone, I meet up with a friend for coffee automatically assumes it's a male friend, I send him a picture of takeout and Noah enjoying it and because the pizza is bigger than normal I've got someone round. This is constant every single say what ever I do is questioned, even noahs behaviour if he's having an off day it's because someone's been round. If Noah doesn't say bye to him over FaceTime it's because I've made him not say it.
I said to him before all this if he could sort his life out get therapy and maybe in a year's time we could try sort something out but now I really regret saying it. I love the thought of family staying together and working through stuff but the stress is making me so ill 😞
Just a little rant girls 😂
Kerry Marsh·
What an absoloute fucking cunt.. I hate me , your carrying his child an also have a little boy with him. your not exactly gunna have someone new round at 26 weeks pregnant an your boy being there as if the stupid frigging idiot. Keep your chin up hun try not to rise to hes accusations you know your self theres only u an your boy in the house , hes just a paranoid fuck up xxxxx
Abbi··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
Oh I try not to, I just ignore his messages when he's says the stuff now but it's when he knows I've got Noah I'm like are you serious just winds me up. Xx
Kerry Marsh··
yeah hun i totally get were your coming from an its hard to not reply especially when they chatting complete bollocks an you know your sat in your house with no one but your child an pregnant. he needs a slap . xxx
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца
Sounds like you're a million percent better off without him. Take it from me possessive men do not change. Whether it be 6 months from now or 10 years from now he will always be that way. Move on lovely you'll thank yourself for it in the long run xx
Abbi··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
I know, I'm always to forgiving think I just need to tell myself that I know he's not going to change xx
Sara-Louise·
Honestly hun I think you may have to go down the route of blocking him on social media etc and get someone in to mediate the situation if this doesn't improve. Maybe make it clear you will not be getting back together at all. He's physically hurt you and is now emotionally torturing you. That behaviour doesn't just go away. The idea of being happy family is a nice thought but at the moment you need to think of yourself and Noah's best interests. Even from just the handful of posts you've put on here he sounds like a nasty piece of work which I think you should stay well clear of. Id tell him if he doesn't stop harassing you, and not just contact you with regards to baby or Noah then you will take it further.
Kelsey··
Мама сына-младенца
I second that! X
Abbi··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
Yeah I'm thinking I'll have to do that, I've told him time and time again to just message me about Noah but it always ends up back to the same arguments. If he could just stick to being normal then I'd be fine but he just can't. I've told him he's made me ill because of it and he just constantly apologises and begs me to forgive him. Think I'll ask his mum or brother to talk to him and see if they can do something as I don't think me telling him to stop will work xx
Zoe ·
В ожидании первенца
My ex is doing the exact same thing! Can't do anything these days... They're trying to win us back but what they don't realise is that they're just pushing us further away 🙄
Abbi··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (26 нед.)
Exactly and no matter how many times you tell them, they still carry on. It's like mentally draining to even talk to him nowadays x
Zoe ··
В ожидании первенца
yeah I know the feeling, I only talk to him now if he messages me first because I just can't deal with it x