Don’t let him make you feel bad. It’s just diaper cream. I can’t count the number of times my kids have gotten hold of something they weren’t supposed to and made a huge mess when I was doing something else..... it happens 🤷🏻‍♀️ we can’t always be looking directly at them 24/7.

My husband does the same thing! I clean up all the messes in the house including my husband’s messes which he’s the main mess maker in the house so my husband will make a mess and then say “I’m not doing my job” or “I’m horrible at cleaning” and I’m like seriously I just seen this mess that YOU made! 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 I take care of/do everything for our son night and day without help and if our son is doing something my husband will say “you’re not even watching him” or “are you sure that’s okay?” or if our son falls he’ll say things like “that was your fault” or “he fell because you weren’t watching him” and I’m like seriously! He’s 9 months old just learning how to stand he’s gonna fall down or get hurt sometimes every kid does! But my husband loves to make me feel like crap for it! My husband can’t even handle watching our son for me so I can do the dishes or shower because he gets aggravated because when my son starts to fuss he doesn’t know what he wants, 🙄 it’s really not that difficult to figure out what he wants if he’d go through the list of things that baby’s need or want.

Sounds like my life