Hi I'm Rae and I have a question my girlfriend has a baby by a guy that does not even help out with anything he needs .. so am I wrong to buy him diapers and stuff even though he is not my son but I am with his mom and help out #myfirstpost
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I mean I know what that little boy is going through I went through the same with my mom she has not been in my life for 23 years and would not help my dad out with nothing and was never stabled and I don't want him to go through the same thing I went through just BC his dad won't help out
That is very mature! She is very lucky to have you. How old is the little boy? Do you know if she or he would let you adopt if you could? Also, would you adopt him if you could?
That's why I just don't listen BC like my step mom always I don't need no birth certificate or piece of paper to tell me thats my kid or not
That's what I try to tell people I mean she appreciate it that I help out its just other people that see me with baby stuff talk mess and make me feel bad
It is perfectly fine. If he ain't going to step up then as her new significant other it is very kind of you to do. Everyone always wants to talk. With kids you have to learn when to listen to the people that want to trash talk and when to walk away.
I guess I was just asking bc most people say he's not mine but I feel like he's mine BC I do more for him then his own dad and think of him as mine not trying to take the dads place but if he calls me mom or whatever then I ain't going to stop him
It is your choice if you want to help out. It is very sweet of you to do and if she says no then I think you need to respect her choice also. Ultimately I do not think there is a problem with it. Hi Rae and welcome.
You do not have to help if you aren't wanting to step up to the plate. The question should be, do you want to? Are you a man or woman?
Thanks and he is 9 months today he was a premuture baby and born two months early and idk me and my girl have not talked about it and yes I would love to adopt him I treat him like he's mine