Shit hit the fan with my SNL, on the plus side shes no longer talking to me lol. She asked again to…
Shit hit the fan with my SNL, on the plus side shes no longer talking to me lol. She asked again to take our daughter for the day. I said fun what do you plan on doing? In her typical 16 year maturity level(shes going to be 40 this year) she said oh just hang out. 🤦🏻♀️I let her have it. Telling her that I need to know where my kid is going and when she is going to be back and to please text though out the day so I know everything is ok. She went off in a typical teenager fashion. "You don't trust me or my family! " not true I get along with my MNL overall pretty well, not great but well and she at least understands as mother to mother where I'm coming from. And yes my SNL has 2 kids ages 16 and 18 . Now that being said my husband is stuck in the middle again. He said he isn't mad at me but hasn't really talked much to me and has been distant. This ordeal isn't new. And I fear is just going to continue for the rest of my life or at least marriage. Any thoughts on how to deal with family craziness?
Melissa ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
When you say you went off on her, what do you mean. Sounds like it's just a miscommunication that could be easily fixed.
Angela Q·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I have asked her multiple times to please text me, she never does. Last time her plan was a to watch the grinch and take her to lunch. I said it was ok as long as she was back home by 2. She didn't text or show back to our home til after 6pm.😠 when I went off on her I said if she was willing to text and bring her home when I ask plus let me know where they are going, she could go. My SNL doesn't want to, she feels that as long as my daughter is with her I shouldn't worry. This is the same SNL who likes to plan playdates for my daughter with people I don't know on Facebook.
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Awww okay. That's really disrespectful.
cristy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
At the end of the day your the mom and have little ones at that, there not teenagers... its important to communicate when you take anyones kids out.... let her know that you would do the same with your own sister.
All it takes is one mistake because someone did not listen. Your husband should understand that.
Angela Q··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
He does, and he wants our kids safe. He is just upset that she keeps doing stuff like this. He hates being in the middle having to choose between me and his sister. But the kids safety always wins.