This is my pregnancy story and my sons birth story and I’m going to post it also for awareness…

This is my pregnancy story and my sons birth story and I’m going to post it also for awareness during pregnancy bc i see a lot of ladies post abt it and it should be taken seriously. Good for 1st time pregnancy and even moms that already have a few children.. it’s gonna be long sry😂

Ok so my pregnancy was very smooth up till I just hit 30 weeks, randomly I kept getting a urge to pee slightly n I didn’t think much of it but within a day it got so bad I kept running to the bathroom barely able to pee but felt like I had too, but the thing that was killing me was very very side pain felt like I was punched on the right side on my back over n over scratch that kicked a lot lol so I woke my SO up early in the morning 4-5am n we went to the hospital.

I had a bladder infection that spread to my kidneys causing the pain. Doctor explained when ur pregnant infections spread like no tomorrow bc everything is already all bunched up in there. Anyway bc of the right flank pain and the infection they tested me for preterm labor also in which I came back positive.. I was beyond scared n worried n every emotion hit me... spent the day in the hospital receiving antibiotics n steroid shots which I had to go back the next day to get another. I’m not a puker at all but it was making me vomit; they said it was the infection pushing out. My SO said the shots whre huge, I don’t normally see him cringe 😂 but thankfully the meds started working and they allowed me to leave and go to my baby shower that day but was told to relax and pretty much be bedridden for awhile so i didn’t go into labor. I had weekly visits from 30 till I gave birth.. and I always tell girls on here plz GO get antibiotics, they whre preparing me for birth bc of this and I never been so scared and fearful.

Skip forward.

At 37 weeks I had a doctors appointment he was abt to let me go bc baby sounded good and everything till I said something abt extra discharge maybe or feeling wet just alil here n there. Bc of what happened prior he sent me straight to the hospital, in which they tested me n I found out my water broke 😳 for more then 3-4 days I had no idea, still doing daily stuff. apparently my water broke and my son plugged it up so I had no idea at all. Now my doctors worried bc i could be low on fluids or my son could have gotten a infection.. now I’m stressing again n my doctors telling my I’m gonna need a c-section if he doesn’t come today. I was induced, I was having contractions the whole time prior to being induced and felt nothing also wasn’t dilating at all. My doctor let me stay the night n try again the next day. 5am hits I’m induced again, now throughout this day I had little progress and my doctor was preparing everyone for a c-section very early in the morning. I had 12 milligrams of picotin for a hrs again till I started getting some cramping.. I got my epidural which let me tell u didn’t hurt that bad but he told me to tell him when I had a contraction which I did I thought he stop or not put in a needle and my god that hurt sooo bad during that one I teared up ASAP but later on in the day around 7-8pm.. I dilated to 4cm.. and my nurse was shutting off the picotin n told me to call or if I felt anything happening if not c-section.. shortly after her still in the room I jumped from 5cm to full blown.

welp ladies I had a sudden amount of pain in my back and felt like I had to 💩 sooo freaking bad. I told her, she checked me and boom! She said he was right there n I had to hold him in n she was gonna call my doctor to come in, 10 min drive lol and honestly holding my son in was the most painful thing ever once he arrived quickly setup and they all kept telling me he’s gonna come quick its not gonna be along one.. so once I started pushing the pain wasn’t so bad compared.. 20mins in my son was born at 11:42 at night.. i had a fourth degree tare n tears in multiple places. 6lbs 9ozs healthy n beautiful.. at 37.6 weeks not preterm..

It was the most beautiful moment in my life, it’s never had so much meaning and something that was so scary for me anxious n everything became the most incredible perfect moment of my life, even getting the stitches n everything I didn’t care it didn’t hurt and I got to hold my son in my arms for the first time and he smiled at me. I cried like a baby won’t lie n I’m not a crier lol it’s a love that nothing ever can compare too..

so plz use my experience and plz don’t stress labor bc everything odd or weird or uncomfortable abt it becomes the most amazing moment of ur life n all that disappears the moment u see/hold ur LO. it’s the best feeling nothing compares ever

Feel free to ask questions if u have any..

ty for reading