Me and baby are supposed to travel to Sacramento, Ca this Tuesday... but my family hasn’t talked to me since booking our flight... would I be a terrible person for not going? 😅🙈...

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Me and baby are supposed to travel to Sacramento, Ca this Tuesday... but my family hasn’t talked to me since booking our flight... would I be a terrible person for not going? 😅🙈 It just doesn’t seem like they’re “excited” enough to want us to go there the two weeks we’re supposed to because they haven’t talked to us in literally a month and a half. I’m seriously dreading flying with B. by myself for 9 hours. I’m completely stumped. 🙃

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I’d literally text them and be like “hey, just a reminder we are coming down in a few days, that still cool?” And see where it goes lol

Malaina Heka · Answer

lol yeah, I’m definitely going to text them about it today.

FairyKarmaMomma · Answer

I would feel kind of weird too.  I’d be on the phone getting a vibe from folks first.  It’s strange they wouldn’t talk to you over the holidays.  Also, it’s not awful traveling like that, but it is definitely a new challenge and you’ll likely want help at the airport when you arrive if you have kid, stroller, car seat and luggage.  If it doesn’t feel right don’t do it, but if you do just make sure you feel good doing it.  You might be escaping super cold weather too.  I live in the Sacramento area.  It’s pretty cold but not NYC winter weather cold.  Good luck!

Malaina Heka · Answer

Thank you!!! I’m really considering not going. Their snap chats and insta stories are the complete opposite of the way they portray themselves towards us. I feel like I should be excited about visiting them, but I’m really not excited at all, and because of that I feel like we shouldn’t even go at all.

Delete Please. · Answer

That’s strange that they haven’t spoken to you in that long? I’d feel bad about the already paid for ticket but it’s still like I’m not about to be uncomfortable in a place it seems like I’m not really wanted. As for flying since he’s a bit older now he might do okay. I flew with Maddie from las Angeles to Bora Bora and that was a very long flight she did really good though and she was around 10 months.

Malaina Heka · Answer

It is, they don’t even talk to us in general. I literally hear from them at most once a month, and it’s just awkward small talk. They offered to fly all three of us out, but Mike has to work, so I agreed for Bellamy and I to go, but now I’m having second thoughts. As for flying, lol I don’t think Bellamy will be that acceptable to the idea of sitting on my lap for 9 hours.😅 He’s 9 1/2 months, and currently in the “exploration” phase... even at home, he refuses to just sit and read or watch movies with me.😭😩😂

Casey Morales · Answer

I personally wouldn't go

Malaina Heka · Answer

I’m seriously considering not going. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Emerson’s Momma 💜 · Answer

Does he have his own seat ?

Malaina Heka · Answer

@lex_6, I really hope so!🙈

Emerson’s Momma 💜 · Answer

@miaheka, ughhhhh . That sounds horrible . It’s two
Weeks right ?

Malaina Heka · Answer

@momofemersonbliss, we fly out on Tuesday, and we’d be there for 2 weeks, yeah. 😣

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