So, my little sister just turned 13 in August. She has a “boyfriend” who is 15, almost 16. I’m the only mother figure she’s ever had and I just think that’s a little too old... it’s only a couple years difference, but I feel like the maturity level between the two ages is way different. Am I wrong for wanting to talk to our dad about it & tell him he needs to monitor her better, or am I just being overprotective? What would you do in my situation?
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No you’re not wrong I wouldn’t trust them alone 16 year old boys usually have one thing on their mind me personally I think 13 is too young to date
Shes too young to date and especially an almost 16 year old. Put a stop to it now or shes going to need her own profile on this app.
My little sister is turning 16 and I still ain’t happy about her dating even though he’s the same age.
Yes. She’s in 7th grade, suppose to be 8th and he’s in 10th grade.
@tylersmommy11116 sounds like me at her age. Yes, all the guys want is to get laid 😂
Nope!! They haven't met yet and he's a good 3 years older. I would shut that down. My younger sister was in 10th grade and she tried dating a guy who was a freshman in college. I was like what normal 19 year old boy wants to date a 10th grader? I had a good chat with them. They didn't last long.
That’s my thoughts on this situation. Why does he want to be with a barely 13 year old? Why not someone his age?
I personally would find it weird considering he’s at that age and I know what most guys are doing at that age or trying to do... and to even be thinking to date a girl who barely turned 13..
At her age, heeeck NO!!! Why is he dating someone so young?!! That's weird! She is too young, at that age I was more mature than a 16 yo boy but that's me! 😆 Your dad needs to be hanging out with her, no reason for them to be more than friends!
I am with you on this one. Your not overprotective. I would talk to your dad. And be a hawk on that.
Depends. Are they goin out as in they just see each other at school? Do they spend time together? Is there always adult supervision?
They haven’t met yet. But I heard her talking to her little girl friend about them going to meet up with him somewhere. Unsupervised...
@tylersmommy11116
I don't think you're out of line at all.
I would talk to your dad. That would not fly in our house! I don’t think your being overprotective.
Kids her age are trying to mature and be grown a lot faster and that’s what scares me. She’s already lost her virginity 😤 if she was my daughter, I would whoop her ass honestly. When she told me about it I really just wanted to smack some sense into her. My dad was super strict with me & I rebelled. But she’s doing stuff that I did at 17, not 13!
@tylersmommy11116, if she was mine I would be the same way.
He is a bit too old you start dating a couple years older when you’re 18 maybe 1 year older
Exactly... I think it’s kind of weird that he’s almost 16 and he’d rather “date” a barely 13 year old, rather than someone closer to his age. She’s in middle school still and he’s in high school!
That’s what I’m saying... I remember how boys were when I was at that age, they only want one thing. And she’s super naive & gullible right now.
When I was 13 I was dating a guy who was almost 16 and he kept talking about sex all the time. I ended up breaking up with him over it cuz I didn’t like feeling pressured.