So I’m 19 & currently 24 weeks pregnant with a sweet baby boy that I can’t wait to meet❤ .This is my…
So I’m 19 & currently 24 weeks pregnant with a sweet baby boy that I can’t wait to meet❤️.This is my first and only pregnancy. I met the father of my child last year around New Years. We kicked it off automatically & Soon got our first apartment together. I didn’t know his toxic abusive ways until it was too late & had already fell in love with him & soon found out I became pregnant. He previously was in a 3 year relationship with his first baby momma ( daughter which is a year old) (She has 2 kids one which isn’t his.)When me and him first met he didn’t really talk about his baby mother & just appeared to be distant with her.. But anyways recently we have been real distant so just a couple weeks ago. We got into an argument & he laid his hands on me leaving the side of my head swollen and with a black eye. (I later found out that he had hit his previous baby mother too)My family soon found out & wanted me to press charges but I didn’t. I ended up just moving back in with my grandparents. Soon my father and little brother found out the situation that had happened. So they flew in from Tampa, FL. So my plan before I even met this guy was to move with my brother and dad that was until I go pregnant and decided to live with my baby father. My question is, should I feel bad for moving back to Florida without giving the opportunity to work things out with my baby father? He’s recently talking to other babymother and going back and forth between us two. He wants both of us and loves both of us a lot.. But he’s making me feel bad for wanting to give birth in a whole different state taking away the opportunity for him to see my belly grow and to be there while me giving birth. I had ideas of moving back to my grandparents (where my mother lives) once the baby is born because I really don’t have a female figure to help me out once my baby is born. I want my son to have a dad in his life. I just don’t know if I’m making the right decision to make a big move. I’m desperate and don’t know what to do please help
Sha·
He physically abused you while you are pregnant with his child. Mama, this is only the beginning. It will be much worse if you go back to him. The fact that he's going back and forth between you and his ex says a lot. I wouldn't be with a man like that. He can still be a father to his son but he's not good enough to be with you.
Danielle·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего
Yes @chasha2017, is so right and he should not be hitting you while you’re pregnant at all . My opinion is that you can do it by yourself and if it is meant to be it will be he will try anything in his power to make it work if he really love you like he says. Do what’s best for you and you baby boy you’re about to have .
leslie·
Мама сына (2 года)
Dont feel bad and please dont go back, the abuse will NOT stop. If he hit you once, he WILL and CAN do it again. Move to Florida and dont look back. You need to do whats best for both you and your child, and staying and going back isnt whats best .
You may love him, but he doesnt love you.
leslie·
Мама сына (2 года)
And it will be hard, you may feel guilty but remember you are doing this for you and your child.
Linden·
Girl leave, like RUNNING and NEVER look back! This situation will NEVER EVER change or get ANY better. Do what's best for you and your baby.
Jade·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this. A few years ago I was dating this guy who after the first couple months started verbally abusing me and then physically. It never stopped. He wouldn’t let me leave I couldn’t speak up to get help. After the first punch let me say these abusive men just get comfortable. They test you to see what you do and if you don’t leave will do it again. No matter what he always got physical. I eventually found out he was seeing another girl for 8 months and not to mention his Baby momma when he could. In my opinion you should run. As fast and as far as you can. Situations like that don’t change. If he is comfortable hitting you while you are pregnant with his child then imagine when you aren’t. Don’t feel guilty because he doesn’t care about anyone but himself. If you ever need to talk you can message me. I endured two years of strait abuse and it took me a long time to build up the courage to be free again
Sha··
I'm glad you were able to get away. 💙
Jade··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@chasha2017, thank you it took so much strength and courage
phoenix🔥·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Please please please run away. Go to Florida disappear!
Kimberly 🌸·
Мама дочки-младенца
You cant be in love two people at once. If you put his hands on you that bad or even at all...he will do it again and it will get worse. Run away baby girl. If not for yourself do it for your son! He will be a danger to you both.