Sometimes I feel like the odd ball of the 3 families my husband sides and my own family and my dad…

Sometimes I feel like the odd ball of the 3 families my husband sides and my own family and my dad side too some of them talk to me but the other just stares at me and I feel like their judging me and a few of them have me on Facebook but a lot of them don’t. I feel left out of everything the tags of events and the events themselves. I am just a sly person and get anxiety attacks with a lot of people around. I want everyone to like me but I don’t know what to do?