My SNL beg to take my oldest again to see the grinch I caved , and said ok but it would have to be…

My SNL beg to take my oldest again to see the grinch I caved , and said ok but it would have to be in the morning and they can have lunch afterwards but she needs to be home in the afternoon so she can rest,( she didn't sleep much the past two nights , I wanted her home so she can have a normal dinner instead of having a huge meltdown and not eat) part of the deal is that she needs to text me through out/check in so I don't worry not every hour on the hour but you know once and awhile so I don't freak out not knowing where my kid is. She never did. I finally text her at 1:45 , she said they were going to pick up her son from school. That was it. Nothing else. He doesn't get out til 3, I know this because sometimes I pick him up. 3 passes, 4 passes I'm starting to freak out full on panic attack my husband text her, bc she hasn't responded to any of mine, he said they were on there way. It wasn't till almost 6:30 they showed up!!!!! I couldn't even look at my SNL I had dinner ready at 6 fucking bitch told my husband I need to relax. She didn't talked to me at all during Thanksgiving or Christmas now shes asking my husband if she can take her to another movie . Fuck that . I truly don't see how I'm being unreasonable I'm her mother I want to know where she is and if she is safe. Common sense. I refuse to let her take her anywhere anymore and I know there is going to be a huge fight in my future. Bring it!