She won't starve herself. Once ypu are at work and she's hungry shell likely take it. Skip a nursing session so she's hungry, and have someone else give the bottle and leave the house.

You need to leave at feeding time and let someone else feed her. It’s the only way my Gd son will take a bottle

I had luck With evenFlo wide neck nipple/bottles.

Just keep trying. Also the people who are caring for her will be able to figure it out because you won’t be the one there. Have someone else try because when the boobs aren’t an option and they are hungry they’ll figure it out (unless other issues like rogue tie.. etc)