I think my husband and me are about to separate! My heart feels so broken and trying to stay calm so I don’t put myself into preterm labor is so hard. Not how I was hoping Christmas was going to go. 😢💔
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Ok so this friend was probably really close and he is in the phase of y.o.l.o and life is to short its sounding he is very bad too talk to his family and if they care for you maybe they will pull a intervention... if he is on drugs you dont need that around you or your baby it could cause alot of pain and money loss... everything happens for a reason and when us women love we tend to hold on to things that even God is trying to pull us away from... its easy to say but be strong and think of your baby the most let him know firmly your leaving and taking your stuff or kicking him out a d if he feels like he wants to stay drug test him or move forward love
@nyoung1006 tell him to goto a rehab or psychologist to help him cope
@mrs.letty.luna I'm a psychologist rehabilitation counselor and I know death can cause a relapse
@mrs.letty.luna, he’s supposed to start drug treatments next week. I’m sympathetic to him loosing his friend but he doesn’t need to take these extremes and hurt me and our son in the process
What did the message from his sister say? Or the message from the weird phone number?
The one from his sister was meant to go to his brother asking for help because she’s afraid he’s doing drugs again and about to throw everything away. The other message sounded like he cheated and when I asked him about it he had excuses and said he was drunk and just talking but it doesn’t sound that way at all
What happen could be just anxiety about a new life with baby or fear of failing
He lost his best friend last week, he took his life, and he’s been going out and staying out all night. I haven’t felt wanted by him at all we never spend any time together and Saturday after we got in a fight he left and went to his friends and didn’t come home till 5:30 this morning and only after I texted him because I was having contractions at 2. His sister accidentally sent him a message she didn’t want him to see so asked if I would delete it and while doing so I found a message from some number that was not ok and we’ve been fighting non stop. He doesn’t see anything wrong with what he did, keeps making excuses and trying to turn things around on me saying I’m not making an effort and I’m being a bitch when I’m not the one acting like I’m on something or staying out partying and being shady
Maybe you or he could stay somewhere else until he pulls his shit together and is ready and stable to be a dad. It will be hard trust me I know, but you guys should take a little break. When I was 39 weeks pregnant with my first I found out my fiancé was sleeping with other women and doing drugs and I broke up with him and put myself into labor. He eventually pulled his shit together but I didn’t know until after we separated after being together 4 years that he went back to sleeping around and doing meth and cocaine for the last 3 years we were together, he got sneaky and I didn’t even know. It’s a lot harder to split up after having a baby. If he is on drugs and being shady you should definitely be away from him for the sake of you and your unborn child. I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s always hard :( I wish I would have left my ex/2 daughters father sooner. He went down the wrong path and our oldest daughter almost got hit by a car because he was apparently doing drugs and left the front door open. Some guy brought her to the house and asked if she was his kid then left. Just don’t stress right now and try to stay calm. Take it one emotion at a time and give yourself a break in between taking all the emotions in.