My fiancés son lives with us and hes been staying in the babys room with all her stuff until she gets here. Well he fucking vapes in there and i literally want to kill everyone. He smokes in here and i do neither. It smells like shit and im scared that that vape shit is going to get on het clothes and make her sick. Thoughts? Opinions? Am i being over dramatic?



Likely because your the same age and he doesn’t feel he needs to listen to you, so your fiancé needs to set some firm boundaries so your step son isn’t walking all over you!
@beakymcspence old enough to go outside. But he doesnt either.
Not appropriate...I’d be having your fiancé put a stop to that ASAP. How old is your step son?
@ashley.mcnabb.04, Your basically the same age as him so I’d let your fiancé deal with it..he may be pushing boundaries because he doesn’t feel he needs to take you seriously. Your fiancé needs to put his foot down about rules or he will just continue doing it.
You’re definitely not being dramatic. You’re very kind for letting him stay in her room until she arrives, so he should have no problem running outside to smoke. Have you told him you don’t allow smoking in your house?
@ashley.mcnabb.04, I don’t see it as complaining! You gotta draw the line somewhere for people to respect you and if he chooses not to I’d give him an ultimatum. Baby comes first