We used this “numbing anal fisting lube” stuff. It’s amazing, you literally can’t feel anything. And if your partner has a hard time lasting a while it helps because it numbs him too for a little while. If he doesn’t want to be numb I recommend using a condom.
😂this got me good when I read it! Any water based lubricant used extensively will do the job or you can always get those condoms that slightly numb you but not your partner!
O God lol