So my fiancé and I were thinking of moving a bit after our baby turns 1 I know that is a long time from now but when we do I want to go to Delaware and he wants to go to New York! And opinions!
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New York is expensive, taxes and just the general cost of living are high. That is a huge reason why we left NYS. I would definitely consider making a pros and cons list. Definitely make sure you have support where ever you go, or within a reasonable distance.
@leeoshee, city and state are both expensive and he wants to go to the state
If you have family you enjoy seeing and want to have in your child's life I would definitely consider how far of a drive or on average what you would spend on flights. It's also nice if you already have existing family in one of those areas. My husband and I moved about 5 hours away from my family and now that I'm pregnant it's been very difficult not having that support here. The idea of moving away from family and friends was a lot easier to swallow when I wasn't actually in a new area with no family or friends. Other than that, I'd say check out costs of living, school districts and what's available for housing. Those things determined where we bought our house!
@madissin, I’m not saying ur discouraging me at all hun! I see where ur coming from! I wanna go to Delaware! Everything is so nice out there I have been 1 time and loved it people are friendly and everything
@brittcelene I felt like I came off super negative. I'm clearly feeling the struggle without my family lolol. You'll figure it out. It has to feel right.
@madissin, no hun u didn’t ur ok really! I don’t really have much for family so that’s kind of why I wanna go! I mean.. I’ll inbox u and explain
It's called niche.com you can put in both places and see all the pros and cons. 😁