okay lets see if any of yall woman can help me out see i have this friend who has been dating this guy for about 4 years and every since they started dating he has been talking to different females at The begginig he was talking to this same girl for about 3 years on the side everytime they would ''Take A Break" and its One of those breaks where they still mess Around and at this point she still screwing him ya Know blah blah and their talking about eachothers feelings and hes basically Like lying to her telling her youre the only one im talking to and this and that but she went through his phone and seen he was talking to the girl that he keeps running to and a couple other girls one girl he worked with and other one was a stripper and there was another girl who her and this girl got into a fist fight because this girl put sand in her gas tank.. LOWWWWW RIGHT Yeaaaaa sooo in the messages he was telling this girl i need some more of youuuu.. and talking nasty Like they had sex before so she asked him and he lied because my friend had the chick on snapchat and seen her story And seen she was in his room in his bed covers on with no clothes hair wrapped like she stayed the night. ( the girl posted a old picture ) so She asked and get this its 3 years later after she asked him many many times about her he said nothing happened . okay back to It she asked the girl like heyy did you and my man ever do anything she mentioned the old messages she saw and the photo and she admitted it to her and as soon as she did she showed him the messages between her and the girl in his face and said to my friend shes lying.. then her and this girl get to arguing and this girl makes a whole story About it and says that she had sex with him and so on so he continues to lie lie lie and then finally he tells her the truth after 3 years and admited to having sex with her TWICE and another girl but shes still Loves Him and he tells her he was a kid then and will never hurt her again but get this just last year he Was talking to another female at his job lmaooo and got caught at this time they have a whole son together and Now they Have a Liittle girl and she feeling like maybe he has changed or maybe he just feels like since they have 2 kids and one on the way that he feels foced to stay but she just cant get passed the lies cause shes really Hurt About it all and i think she should just Leave him but thats me i cant make any decisions for her what yall think?
She needs to leave. Hands down. There is no IF’s, And’s or butt’s about it. And secondly I’d punch him in his dick and throat for lying and cheating 😂 but on a real note she just needs to leave and he needs to keep his shit wrapped so he doesn’t have anymore babies with anyone else and she needs to put him on child support unless he support the kids willing and helps her out they need to have a health co parenting relationship. She deserves better than half ass love!