My boyfriend's step mom is pissed ... Basically we CANT to Christmas dinner sunday(which was at…

My boyfriend's step mom is pissed ... Basically we CANT to Christmas dinner sunday(which was at first close to home but now its at her daughter's who lives HOURS away from us) and nobody sees why..we work that night but during the day they expect us to drive hours away to go sit at someone we don't even talk to house because THEY DON'T WANT TO DRIVE hours to get here? Now plans are switched and its all fine and well but ya'll can't understand we don't get rest AS IS cause we chase our daughter around constantly and don't want to waste our day of rest (since we work that night!) To go and sit while everyone is on their phones like no what's the point? I went to dinner and families houses for Thanksgiving and went to work and literally I could NOT keep my eyes open 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄