My SO and I haven't had sex in probably a month and even before then it was infrequent. He says that he's weirded out by the baby but we barely even kiss or touch so it's hard not to take it personally. Has anyone else gone through this? It's really lonely
I get being weirded out by sex. I dont get the lack of hugs or kisses though. In fact when SO isnt affectionate towards me, I don't even want to have sex.
I think you should talk to him about how you are feeling.
I have a bunch of times, I don't mind not having sex because I get it especially this far into the pregnancy it's kinda weird but no matter how many times I address his lack of physical affection he just says sorry and nothing changes
@liebleind96 I get it. Ive stopped bringing it up. He was that way before pregnancy too. But it does make you feel lonely and unloved. Your love language is probably physical affection. He may not get it. You could try getting him to read the 5 languages of love.
My SO is the complete opposite 😂 he’s always trying to get it on. I just doesn’t always feel good with my big ole belly or tightness down there. Plus I feel like we’re shaking him up so much now that I’m about to be 8 months 😬
Ohhh yes .....I'm 25 1/2 weeks ....we are barely intimate....think we've had sex like three times since finding out I was pregnant. N two of them times was before I really started showing.